Proverbs 25:28

Like a city that is broken down and without a wall, so is person who cannot control his temper.

Zombies and Birds

i am such a late bloomer.

Planst vs Zombies is in my laptop as early as 2009 but I just started playing 2 months back...and I cannot pass the stage at the roof! Haha! I like planting sun flowers and using those plants with nozzles to kill those zombies. I just can't get over the thrill whenever I see double dead zombies! 

And then just recently, I gave myself a treat by buying a bigger android phone, I am not tech savvy, just happy for a regular phone- call and text. But Tabby is great! I just finished playing Angry Birds! The oldest version. The gigil moments when those pigs give you an oink-oink when you failed to bursts all the barriers. Haha! You will never stop... But I just recently get over it...and now for killing time...i started playing Unblock Me. As of this writing I'm already at puzzle 243. =)

And did I ever mention, I created an account in instagram too? Yeah, I know, you have these all...way way back...I just want to share. =)

And one of the main reasons I got a bigger phone, is because of the NIV Bible that I bring and read every time needed. So handy and so close. I just need to give time and effort and make a habit of doing it everyday.

=)

Btw, I like this article from Bo, click this link to read.

http://bosanchez.ph/meet-your-five-most-commonly-neglected-needs/

Farewell Ahyan

Ahyan left us at his prime.


He made me realize a lot of things. Things that I already know, read, and hear almost everyday. And they just become so real now.


We really are not in control of everything, we just have to live our life the best we can. Spend more time with  our love ones. Do not waste each day living the life of someone else. Be happy. Be in special occasions you are invited to go to. Do not hate. Forgive and Forget. Give love and let go of the things that hurt you so bad. After all- we are here to live a happy and fair life and to invest more on personal relationships.


Thank you Ahyan for the bottles of beer; for your humility and the time you shared with us. Short but well lived.


Au revoir!

Peanut Brain

I actually do not know how and to which part of the story I will start this post; but imagine that at the age of almost 30 I am bullied by someone arrogant and insecure. Remember those days when we were in high school that the common form of bullying is someone's size and appearance? Then the kid will go home hopeless, tainted and afraid to go to school the next day?

Well, that happened to me to me at work (minus the hopeless, tainted and afraid); and mind you I am the supervisor and that girl is one of our agents. Did I retaliate? No, I did not. Because I know better that bullies are the most insecure.They are too scared to show what they really feel. A complex common to school drop outs. And the someone with the loudest voice feels empty inside.

For college, high school or elementary students or anyone who are prone to bullies it will be hard to understand why you are becoming the bully's subject...but you need to know...that you have that "x-factor" that cannot be given with a definite meaning but really there is something IN YOU that the bully feels so jealous and insecure about.


Do not hate the bullies, pity them. They are not strong, they are the weakest.


My Tips for You to be "Bully Protected"


1. Love yourself- learn to accept your flaws and weaknesses; you cannot be that oh-so-perfect Georgina Wilson with her rich bf Borgy Manotoc but you too have your own special ingredient that she doesn't have---that is your x- gene.


2. Be comfortable with your own skin- literally. Love your physical appearance, we cannot have all red roses in the field, that is lousy. There should flowers of different kinds, colors, textures and fragrances. You are made to complete the circle.


3. Know that beauty is relative, so is happiness.


4. Love your OWN. Loving yourself is like taking food supplements, pangmatagalan.


So the next time someone bully you, turn your back, do not pay attention, regal yourself and remember that person needs cure. Do not ever stoop down to their level.


Breeding and class baby.

And by the way, bullies- have peanut brain.

=)

Ready your Heart.

I understand the heart of a jealous woman.

But we must know when to stop when things are not going our way; there are battles that we need to let go, fight we started that from the beginning we are aware of the ending. It is alright to lose sometimes. It is not a sign of weakness. Losing signifies acceptance that we are willing to learn from our mistakes, from the past, and not to live of who we were but do our best in becoming who we are.

God is all knowing, He designed someone for all of us; if the person who makes your heart glow now is taken- engaged or married. Let go. It may be hard, but it is the right thing to do. Let us give respect to the woman who rightfully owns that man. We should not allow ourselves to be the reason of someone's down fall.

We go with the song, (i mixed the lyrics) "we have the right love at the wrong time...and letting go is just another way to say I'll always love you so..." If its meant to be. It is bound to happen. But for as long as your someone belongs to his special someone. You are at the wrong time...right love? I do not know. I cannot be the judge. But do not be the third wheel. Respect yourself. You deserve someone better.

Along the way, while waiting, ready your field. Be the best woman you can be. Enjoy your being single. Go places. Read books. Feed your mind. Be open with possibilities.

You also have your own love story to tell.  God knows when will be the right time for your to stumble with the right guy. It could be the guy next to you while when you are paying the coffee you ordered; it could also be that long lost friend you have from high school; or someone you accidentally met at the hospital while you're having your annual physical exam.

You too will have your own book to write. Explore.

With good friends, tequila shots and free hotel room- life is beautiful!

Yesterday, I was asked to give a quick interview 101 to two of our agents applying as an RTA (real time analyst)- we came to one of the most common question: HOW DO YOU HANDLE STRESS?

Too much stressors today, my head aches. After the arguments, confrontations, huddles, pressures from bosses- still all is well.

Whatever the first food, drink, or anything sweet that will pop my mind is my comfort food for the day- and for today- i had- Cha Dao Milk Tea. Thank you J for buying one for me. =) You are the sweetest.

After our lunch I took a nap to recharge, after almost an hour, i felt better.

And to vent- i blog.

In my page, no one will judge me or ask me- i can simply write anything and everything. So random.

We all play different roles. And i want to play my part right, not perfect, just right. Complete mix. I want my people to be my partners. I want them to perform not because they fear me but because they know their goals and what they want to achieve. I guide, I help.
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I am saddened with the news that our comedy king Dolphy passed away early morning today. I am lucky and privilege in growing up watching Home Along Da Riles. I admire his brilliance and character. May he rest in   peace.
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My favorite line in this blog, "time flies fast" well...really it is! We are already on the 2nd week of July! 


BTW, we had our Company Outing last Sunday at Lima Park Hotel in Batangas. Nothing much to see there. Just a hotel and a pool. Not much of a thrill. But happiness is relative...choose to be happy wherever, whenever, whoever.


Some pics i gathered in FB, did not have my digi cam.

*credit to the owners.

With Jupiter, Neil, Raich, Rhexy and Marge. We need a classic shot with that donkey. =)

With a bottle of beer, cards and good company who can't help but giggle?

We are young, wild and free. Beautiful Sun...and the stairs...we caused traffic.=)

It was really hot outside- we all found comfort in this little room, come one, come all!

Get over it Neil, no one really pays attention, you know?! =) Chill!

And life actually is beautiful, you can see it in my eyes! hehe! no sunnies! loser! =)

With good friends, tequila shots, waiters to serve your food, and a hotel room for free- life is beautiful!

Cheers to a good life! =)

Thank You Papa God

Happy 1st of July! Ilang tulog nalang 2013 na! Bilis ng panahon.

I can't let this day pass without immortalizing how this ordinary Sunday became so special to me.

I am really blessed to have J in my life, he really is one in a million, i was just there at the right spot when the time comes that he is about to fall in love. Swerte ko lang talaga. Of being together for more than 3 years --everyday, I am a queen. In every moment possible-- I am his princess. Thank you so much. I may not be the prettiest, sexiest, i do not have signature bags, never been to any bars in Resorts World---but I have the best partner in life. Thank you Papa God.

Today, after RDOT, I rushed to VCF Pioneer and met J there. It makes me real happy that we are attending the service and together we are growing spiritually. Another answered prayer. Thank you Papa God.

 After the service, he surprised me with Amazing Spider-Man tickets, he is just in "allowance basis" and efforts like this...super...i appreciate! sweet!

There was this one "monthsary" few years back, that he walked from Shangri-la to Kapitolyo just to save enough to buy me our "monthsary cake." Another pogi points!

hay...can we have him cloned? I want to share my Blessing too! Para wala ng malungkot na babae! =) Thank you Papa God.