I actually do not know how and to which part of the story I will start this post; but imagine that at the age of almost 30 I am bullied by someone arrogant and insecure. Remember those days when we were in high school that the common form of bullying is someone's size and appearance? Then the kid will go home hopeless, tainted and afraid to go to school the next day?
Well, that happened to me to me at work (minus the hopeless, tainted and afraid); and mind you I am the supervisor and that girl is one of our agents. Did I retaliate? No, I did not. Because I know better that bullies are the most insecure.They are too scared to show what they really feel. A complex common to school drop outs. And the someone with the loudest voice feels empty inside.
For college, high school or elementary students or anyone who are prone to bullies it will be hard to understand why you are becoming the bully's subject...but you need to know...that you have that "x-factor" that cannot be given with a definite meaning but really there is something IN YOU that the bully feels so jealous and insecure about.
Do not hate the bullies, pity them. They are not strong, they are the weakest.
My Tips for You to be "Bully Protected"
1. Love yourself- learn to accept your flaws and weaknesses; you cannot be that oh-so-perfect Georgina Wilson with her rich bf Borgy Manotoc but you too have your own special ingredient that she doesn't have---that is your x- gene.
2. Be comfortable with your own skin- literally. Love your physical appearance, we cannot have all red roses in the field, that is lousy. There should flowers of different kinds, colors, textures and fragrances. You are made to complete the circle.
3. Know that beauty is relative, so is happiness.
4. Love your OWN. Loving yourself is like taking food supplements, pangmatagalan.
So the next time someone bully you, turn your back, do not pay attention, regal yourself and remember that person needs cure. Do not ever stoop down to their level.
Breeding and class baby.
And by the way, bullies- have peanut brain.
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